By Dheya Career Mentors · 3 min read · Updated 28 October 2026

The Star Thrower: Why Helping One Person Matters

"It made a difference to that one."

The story

A man walks a beach covered with stranded starfish and sees someone throwing them back into the sea. "There are thousands," he says. "You can't make a difference." The thrower picks up another, throws it in, and replies, "It made a difference to that one."

The popular version is adapted from Loren Eiseley's 1969 essay The Star Thrower.

For mentors and teachers

Large problems — unemployment, wrong career choices, lack of guidance — can feel overwhelming. Each student you help still matters.

For anyone

Small, consistent acts of help add up across a lifetime.

Deciding whether it fits you

A field can look exciting from the outside and still be a poor fit. Before committing, talk to two or three people already doing the work, try a short course or project, and notice whether the day-to-day tasks energise or drain you. A structured conversation with a mentor can help you compare options against your interests, abilities and values rather than trends alone.

Frequently asked questions

Who wrote the starfish story?

It is adapted from Loren Eiseley's essay The Star Thrower; the short version circulates widely.

How can I start mentoring?

Begin informally with students or juniors you know, or explore a structured mentor training pathway.

Keep exploring

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