By Dheya Career Mentors · 3 min read · Updated 28 October 2026

Defining Your Guiding Principles

Clear principles turn hard choices into easier ones.

Why principles help

When you know what matters most, decisions about jobs, studies and relationships become clearer.

Finding yours

  1. Recall people you admire. What qualities do they show?
  2. Recall times you felt proud or uncomfortable. Which values were involved?
  3. Choose five values, for example honesty, learning, family, service, independence.
  4. Write a sentence for each about how you live it.

Using them

When facing a choice, ask which option fits your principles best. Review them every year or two.

Deciding whether it fits you

A field can look exciting from the outside and still be a poor fit. Before committing, talk to two or three people already doing the work, try a short course or project, and notice whether the day-to-day tasks energise or drain you. A structured conversation with a mentor can help you compare options against your interests, abilities and values rather than trends alone.

Frequently asked questions

Can principles change?

Yes. Core values often remain, but priorities shift with life stages.

How do values relate to career choice?

Work that clashes with your values tends to feel draining, even if it pays well.

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